Leaving the Jehovah's Witnesses: What Happens to Your Nervous System After You Go
I was fifteen, sitting at the park with friends, when I understood, all at once, that my queerness would eventually cost me everyone at that park and more. What I didn't have words for then is what I've spent years understanding: this is exactly what happens to the nervous system when it encounters a threat too large to respond to openly. And it holds that weight for a very long time.
What to Do If You’ve Been Denied Gender-Affirming Care Because You Don’t Fit Into the Binary Gender Cis-Tem
If you’ve been denied gender-affirming care because your identity doesn’t fit the binary mold, you’re not alone—and you’re not the problem. Gender expansive, nonconforming, fluid, and nonbinary folks are often erased by systems that weren’t built for us. As a nonbinary therapist, I offer trauma-informed, affirming support that honors your full, embodied truth. You deserve care that sees all of you.
An interview with The Gender Doula, Eli Lawliet
"I thought, 'What can I build a foundation on?' and the only answer was transness. So I've been developing an animistic spirituality ever since that finds its roots in transness." - The Gender Doula