Healing from Institutional & Religious Trauma

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When the Place That Was Supposed to Help You Caused Harm

You may be here because something that once claimed to offer meaning, safety, or guidance ended up causing harm.

You might be carrying fear, shame, grief, anger, or confusion connected to religious trauma, high-control or high-demand religion, cult recovery, spiritual abuse, academia, art school, or another institution that held power over your life.

You may still feel the presence of this institution in your body, in how you second-guess yourself, brace for judgment, or struggle to trust your own instincts.

Wherever You Are in the Process

Some people arrive here after leaving a religious, spiritual, or academic community. Others are still inside one, unsure how to name what doesn't feel right. Some are navigating deconstruction — questioning beliefs they were raised in or that once defined them. Some aren't sure they want anything to do with spirituality or institutions at all anymore.

However you arrived, you don't need to have clarity before beginning.

You May Have Learned to Survive By…

  • Overriding your intuition to stay connected or safe

  • Disconnecting from your body, desires, or inner life

  • Internalizing blame for harm that wasn't yours

  • Swinging between longing for meaning and rejecting it entirely

  • People-pleasing, perfectionism, or hypervigilance as a way of staying acceptable

These responses often made sense at the time. They are not signs of weakness — they're signs of adaptation.

A Trauma-Informed Space to Reclaim Your Own Authority

This work is body-centered and trauma-informed, which means we don't just talk about what happened — we work with how it lives in your nervous system. Using somatic therapy, Hakomi, and Parts Work, we move at your pace, with no agenda about what your relationship to faith, spirituality, or meaning should look like on the other side.

This space is especially welcoming for those navigating religious trauma, academic or institutional abuse, deconstruction, faith transitions, and the complex grief of leaving — or staying in — a community that once felt like home.

Online therapy available across California, including Los Angeles.

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In our work together, we slow things down. We make room for what happened, how it shaped you, and what you want now, without pressure to believe, forgive, or resolve anything prematurely.

This is not about replacing one belief system with another. It's about restoring choice, agency, and trust in yourself, reclaiming an inner authority that may have been systematically undermined.

We may explore how religious or institutional trauma shows up in your body, your relationships, your self-worth, and your sense of identity. Whether you're processing spiritual abuse, grieving a community, rebuilding after deconstruction, or simply trying to understand why certain situations still trigger a deep fear response — this is a space for all of it.

This is not about replacing one belief system with another. It's about restoring choice, agency, and trust in yourself.

All parts of you are welcome here — including the parts that feel conflicted, skeptical, angry, grieving, relief-filled, or still searching.

What Therapy Can Offer

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Understanding Institutional Harm From the Inside

My clinical work is deeply informed by lived experience navigating systems that can be profoundly shaping and, at times, deeply harmful.

I was raised from birth within the Jehovah’s Witness church, and as a teenager, came to understand that my queerness would eventually place me at odds with my entire community.

That realization was not only relationally devastating, but epistemologically disorienting, requiring me, at a young age, to question authority, belonging, truth, and survival all at once.

This early rupture has profoundly shaped how I understand identity loss, exile, and the long-term impact of high-control environments.

Professionally, I have also worked within systems that expose people to cumulative trauma, including roles in social services and victim advocacy.

These experiences—while meaningful—were not without cost, and left their own imprint.

In parallel, I have navigated multiple graduate programs across disciplines, including a recent MFA program that was experienced as destabilizing and harmful by some.

Through this, and through my work with dozens of clients, I have witnessed how academic and art-world institutions can erode confidence, creativity, and self-trust—particularly for queer, neurodivergent, and highly sensitive people.

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