Spiritual Direction & Existential Support
Queer, animist, decolonial care for meaning, magic, and the more‑than‑human
A space for your biggest questions
You might feel a tug toward something larger than yourself, but the words “religion” or “spirituality” feel too narrow, colonized, or painful.
You might be sensing shifts in your relationships, art, body, or dreams that don’t fit neatly into a diagnosis or treatment plan.
Or you might be in the middle of a major life transition, grief, or awakening, and find yourself asking: What is this all for? Who am I in relation to land, ancestors, community, and the unseen?
This offering is for people who want grounded, non‑dogmatic support for exploring spiritual and existential questions — including those shaped by queerness, kink, polyamory, neurodivergence, and Indigenous or diasporic cosmologies.
It is not psychotherapy or mental health treatment; it is relational, depth‑oriented spiritual direction and existential companionship.
Is this you right now?
What this work can offer
Rooted, non‑dogmatic spiritual direction
Together, we’ll explore your relationship to spirit, the unseen, the more‑than‑human, and the mysteries of your own life without imposing a pre‑made path.
We might work with symbols, dreams, tarot, ritual, creativity, or guided reflection as ways of listening more deeply to what is already speaking in and around you.
Existential support for big transitions
This space can hold life events that don’t fit neatly into “problems to solve”: grief, endings, vocational or artistic pivots, shifts in belief, aging, or initiatory experiences. I specialize in offering existential support for artists and multi-passionate people.
We’ll sit with questions of meaning, purpose, mortality, and belonging — not to find one final answer, but to help you feel more anchored, honest, and resourced in how you live.
Queer, kink‑aware, and poly‑affirming spiritual care
Your queerness, kink, polyamory, relationship anarchy, or chosen family constellations are welcomed as part of your spiritual landscape, not obstacles to it.
We can explore how desire, power, devotion, consent, and play show up in your spiritual and relational life, and how they connect to your ethics, values, and sense of the sacred.
Animist and Indigenous‑informed cosmologies
If it feels right for you, we can attend to land, ancestors, spirits, and more‑than‑human kin as real relational presences, not metaphors.
We’ll also stay awake to questions of lineage, appropriation, and decolonial practice — honoring your ancestral and cultural roots while being mindful about what you engage and how.
Practical details
You can adapt this to match your current policies, but structurally:
Format: Online sessions via secure video or phone, for individuals (not couples/constellations in this container).
Location: Available to people across the United States and Internationally.
Length & frequency: 55 minutes, every week, depending on your needs and capacity. I may or may not have space for bi-weekly sessions, we can discuss that during our first call together.
Investment: $250 per session.
Not a crisis service: If you’re experiencing acute suicidal thoughts, self‑harm, or a mental health emergency, this is not the right level of care; I can share crisis and psychotherapy resources instead.
Spiritual direction and existential support may be right for you if:
You’re deconstructing or healing from religious, spiritual, or cultural trauma and want to create something new in its place, not just live in the absence of belief.
You feel called toward magic, ritual, tarot, divination, or ancestral connection, but feel unsure how to begin in a way that is ethical and aligned.
You’re an artist, creative, or healer who senses that your work is tied to something bigger — lineage, land, collective trauma — and you want space to explore that.
You’re wrestling with death, grief, illness, climate crisis, or endings and feel pulled toward existential questions about meaning, belonging, and what continues.
You’re queer, trans, nonbinary, and/or neurodivergent seeking queer and trans‑affirming spiritual direction.
You sense relationships (with humans, ancestors, spirits, land, or more‑than‑human kin) shifting and want support discerning what they’re asking of you.
How this is different from therapy
Spiritual direction and existential support are not psychotherapy, counseling, or mental health treatment.
Therapy focuses on diagnosis, symptom relief, trauma processing, and functional change, and is regulated by specific laws, ethics, and licensing boards.
Spiritual direction and existential companionship focus on meaning, mystery, vocation, spiritual experience, and relationship to the larger arc of your life.
In this container:
We will not be working with insurance, diagnosis, or documentation for medical purposes.
We will be centering questions like: What is life asking of me now? What am I in relationship with? How do I want to show up in this world and beyond it?
If it becomes clear that you would benefit from psychotherapy, crisis support, or a different level of care, I will name that directly and collaborate with you on referrals or adjustments.
If you are already my psychotherapy client, we’ll have a thoughtful conversation about boundaries and ethics before adding or shifting into this kind of work, so roles stay clear and supportive.
FAQs
Do I have to share my whole spiritual story or trauma history?
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No. We’ll move at your pace. You choose what you want to bring in, and you can always say no to practices or directions that don’t feel right.
What if I’m skeptical, conflicted, or ‘not spiritual enough’?
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Skepticism, ambivalence, and confusion are all welcome here. You don’t have to believe in anything in particular; we can simply stay close to your lived experience, questions, and values.
Can we work with tarot, ritual, or creative processes?
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Yes — if that feels meaningful to you. We might bring in cards, guided visualization, small ritual acts, writing, or art‑making as ways of listening more deeply. We’ll co‑create what feels resonant and ethical.
How can I contact you?
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You can reach me anytime via my contact page.